Sunday, January 19, 2014

A Special Week


Kason had his 6-month wellness check on Monday! He is 21 pounds 3 ounces (95%) and 29 ¼ inches long (99%). His head is also in the 96th percentile! We still have a big boy! He hasn’t gained any weight in the last couple weeks, but he is feeling better, so he should start eating better! He has been eating lots of meats and vegetables this week! He also liked little pieces of bread and tortillas.  It is fun to see him eat new foods, although he is a little pickier than we expected! He takes a little while to get used to new foods, but we now have expanded our menu to beans, squash, sweet potatoes, turkey, chicken, and ham.  He got his 6 month shots on Wednesday and actually did great compared to what I expected! We also had Brandi Simmons take Kason’s 6-month pictures! I can’t wait to get them back! He was such a stinker and didn’t want to smile, but I’m hoping they still look alright! He is much more active now. He is really good at getting from the sitting position to his hands/knees.  He is getting back to his happy personality although the past 3 weeks of coddling hasn’t helped! He seems to always want to be held! He had an awful week of sleeping except for last night finally! We let him cry for only 15 minutes, and he slept from 10 until 6. We are hoping that continues as we all woke up much happier today! He also loves spending time with his cousins and watching the older ones run around.  He is entertained for a long time when they are around.  Kamrie is great about entertaining Kason; she will bring every toy to Kason and hold it in front of him while telling him about it.  He loves Kamrie!




This week we finished watching the 6-year old boy from our ward.  We watched him while his mom was out of town.  His dad dropped him off at 6:00 AM, and then we took him to school at 8.  Kolt was great to get up with him, as he is quite energetic in the morning! I took him to school when Kolt has class this week.  Kolt is excited for the day when Kason is old enough to be a fun playmate!

We had our first week of school this week.  Kolt enjoyed his classes, and I worked on my online classes.  I think we are both struggling to get motivated, but we will get there! I got the 1099s sent out this week at work.  My schedule works nicely where I still go in 3 days a week and Kolt is home to watch him Mondays and Fridays while I work, so I only have to take Kason with me on Wednesdays.  



We also got to watch Brand’s first basketball games this week.  He had a team scrimmage on Monday and then played Sandcreek on Thursday.  He did great in both games! He has really improved on his ball handling and does well inside.  It will be fun to see him grow as a player through the season.  Kolt and I both enjoy going to Rocky Mountain Middle School and reliving some of our memories in the school and on the court.  It is neat to be back in that gym!

On Monday evening I played in my volleyball league in Rexburg again.  We had 2 players missing, so my mom came with us to play.  We won both games in 3 even with only 5 players! It was pretty fun, and I enjoy playing and not being pregnant.  It helps my vertical! Kolt came to watch this week, and Kason slept the entire 2 hours, which didn’t help his ability to sleep through the night!

On Thursday evening after Brand’s game, Kason and I went with Kolt to Pocatello to his lab class once a week.  The class was only 30 minutes, and then we drove down to Arimo to look at a saddle.  Kolt has been wanting his own saddle for a long time, so when we found a good deal, we got it.  The guy who sold it to us was a nice guy who knew Grandpa Monte Piquet.  It is fun to have connections. Kolt loves his saddle! He is looking forward to having one of his own.  

On Saturday, we watched Evan play basketball at 11:30.  We also took a couple of quizzes for class, rode horses, and cleaned house.  I am enjoying my Saturdays before club volleyball begins. On Saturday night we went to Stake Adult Session of Stake Conference.  Grandpa & Grandma Piquet watched Kason and took him to Rope’s game.  He did really well, but didn’t seem to like the noise when it went into double OT. 

Kolt and I haven’t been to many Adult Sessions before we were married, but have been to a few since we got married.  We have both discussed how much we love the Adult session.  It may be due to the fact that we don’t have to fight Kason during the meeting, but it also seems to have great messages. I wanted to share some of the things I learned during the meeting and during the general session today because I felt very inspired by the messages.  We were instructed to love your spouse, neighbors and others simply because of who we are.  We learned 6 different blessings from doing missionary work, one of which is that families can be blessed with peace from heaven as we do.  The speaker emphasized that the things of less importance disappear when we do missionary work.  That really touched me because in a world where there is so many things to do and a mother tries to decide what her family should spend her time doing, we can know that as we do the things that matter most, missionary work, family history, scriptures and prayers, the things of less importance will disappear.  



We learned that there is no sure way to defend yourself against the adversary than to immerse yourself in searching out your ancestors.  We also learned that those not of our faith need an invitation to be a part of our wards.  My favorite part of the conference was when we learned about 3 important teaching moments in our homes.  First, the refrigerator door can provide teaching moments for our children.  We learned that mothers can post powerful quotes and pictures on the door of the fridge in which we can know that our children, specifically teenage boys who visit the fridge often, will see many times a day.  He talked about a family who had this quote pinned to their fridge, “Average people talk about people.  Great people talk about ideas.” He testified that this family lived the quote they put on their fridge.  The second teaching moment in our home is the dinner table.  He talked about the importance of teaching at the dinner table where parents have the full attention of their children. He talked about how fast food and being in a hurry is very contradictory to the idea of families sharing meals together and edifying each other.  The last place he discussed was the walls of our homes.  Elder Schwitzer of the Seventy spoke about how the walls of our home can be teaching moments.  He talked about a boy who wanted to live on the sea, and his mother realized that she had pictures of ships in her home.  She immediately took them down and replaced them with other pictures.  I felt strongly that I want to have a picture of the temple in every room in my house, including Kason’s room.  He challenged each of us to do a spiritual audit of our home and raise the bar.  I am anxious to do that this week and “make home base strong” for my children.

I love the gospel. I know that families can be together through the temple, and I’m so grateful for that knowledge.  I know we are blessed as we follow even the little commandments. I took on the challenge extended from Bishop Bodily to avoid social media this week and increase spiritual moments with our families for 1 week.  Although I don’t think that social media is a bad thing, I have felt for a while that I needed to do this as a way to focus on the things that really matter.  I have felt many blessings this week as the peace in my home has increased and relationships have grown stronger. Most importantly, I have found that I am more receptive to the Spirit as I am more attentive to those in my presence.  I feel like I have been more attentive in Kason’s life and been able to spend more quality time with my family.  I read somewhere that spiritual moments should be lived in, not posted about.  I feel like I have been blessed as I strived to do that most this week.  Although I will probably go back to social media in the near future, I know I have been made stronger because of this experience, and I now know the blessings of enjoying the moment with those I love.

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